
Today is my darling husband's birthday...and so I prepared myself to do the dreaded "masculine" card. Phillip has said he likes our "
A Man's Sole" stamp set, and I did design those shoes based on actual shoes he owns, so that's what I reached for. The sentiment is from
Sketched Sentiments. Happy Birthday honey! Only one more year until you're...errr...I won't say. :)
Thoughts on the masculine card.I know we stampers are screaming for more masculine stamps, but let me tell you why stamp designers have panic attacks at the thought of designing a masculine stamp set. The problem with designing stamps that appeal to men is that they need to appeal to women too.
So, this makes it hard...because the types of things I see my husband interested in, for example, are car parts for his Audi (
like the exhaust and tires), the latest Blackberry (
too much work), assorted computer parts like motherboards and who-knows-what
(I'd rather not know what goes in my computer, I just need it to work), video games
(almost no interest for me there,) motorcycles (
BIG no), WELDING (
come on!), football and baseball (
sure, but mostly for the cute men in uniform), salmon fishing (
i.e. fish guts), etc. Do I really want to put these types of things on a card? It's not my deepest desire...but maybe, if it's cool or artsy or designy or (dare I say it)
cute. The problem is though, the more we start making things like cars and fish artsy and cute, the less "masculine" they are. See the dilemma here??
This reminds me of the WORST assignment I ever had when I used to design for ESPN.com. We would design web ads to present to clients in the hopes that they'd hand over gobs of money to advertise, and my boss (a man) asked me to design a MASCULINE ad for an online floral company who was considering advertising on Valentine's day. Flowers = Valentines Day = masculine =ESPN??
Are you kidding me? I tried my best...I went with red and black (no pink) and chose red roses (the most masculine flower I could think of) and guess what? It didn't fly...my boss kept asking for something more masculine to show them. I was pulling my hair out! Eventually I had to give up, and my boss took a stab at it and admitted that it could not be done. There was to be no Valentine's floral ad on ESPN.com I'm afraid. ;) Later as a joke I sent him an ad with big lips and pink hearts and the most girly flowers and Valentine's day stuff I could find and asked him if that would work. We both laughed (ha ha!)
I asked my husband what types of images he'd like to see on a birthday card just today. He drew a blank and mentioned he liked our "shoe" set. You know what this tells me of course is that he doesn't really care, but appreciates the effort I'm making to at least try and appeal to his masculine side. I think that's all we can really do. After all, when he married me he knew what he was getting...a girly-girl who likes to do crafts and stamp and wants her china doll prominently displayed on the bookcase in our bedroom (it's true.) He doesn't seem to mind. I think these men expect that the cards we women give them be a little girly...they are from girls!
So, I am planning on attempting another manly stamp set, and you may even see a fish in it. It may be a fish with a smiling face though. :) If you have any "man" stamps you've been dying to see...now is the time to let me know about it! And I'm talking
man stamps here, not little boy (we're quite comfortable doing little boy.) I'm about to put my "thinking cap" on for our next release...let the panic attacks begin.

By the way, this is the card my son made for Phillip. He insisted on using the robot set (
Gizmos and Gears), and also that it have 3 "wheels" (gears). AND that he get to use my Spellbinders Wizard...cranking the die machine was half the fun and what really held his attention. See, future MAN here.